An award-winning Ghanaian actress, Yvonne Nelson found herself entangled in a tumultuous love affair with the budding musician Sarkodie. It was the year 2010, a time when their lives were filled with uncertainty and dreams of future success. Little did they know that their short-lived relationship would leave a lasting mark on their lives.
Yvonne, a talented and beautiful actress, had always found solace in music. It was her escape from the hardships that life had thrown her way. When she met Sarkodie, she was immediately drawn to his talent and charisma. They began talking and getting closer, their connection growing stronger with each passing day.
However, their romance took an unexpected turn when Yvonne discovered she was pregnant. Panic and fear overwhelmed her as she realized the consequences of their actions. She confided in her friend Karen, who accompanied her to a clinic for a pregnancy test. The tension was palpable as they waited for the results.
When the verdict was finally delivered, Yvonne couldn't bring herself to open the test result. It was Karen who read the outcome aloud, exclaiming, “Charlie, it dey there!” The weight of the situation hit Yvonne like a ton of bricks. This revelation had the potential to turn her world upside down.
Realizing that Sarkodie was equally responsible, Yvonne mustered the courage to inform him of the pregnancy. Michael Owusu Addo, known as Sarkodie, a talented musician with aspirations of becoming one of the biggest artists in Ghana and beyond. However, at that point in his life, he was still struggling to navigate his path to success. He was living with his mother and felt unprepared to shoulder the responsibility of a child.
Yvonne reflects on their relationship in her book, admitting that it was not a serious affair. She had always been drawn to individuals in the music industry, seeking solace and inspiration through their craft. But as she grew closer to Sarkodie, the consequences of their actions became all too real.
Desperate to resolve the situation, Yvonne resorted to attempting an abortion. She sought help from a colleague who provided her with a concoction, hoping it would terminate the pregnancy. However, fate had other plans. A subsequent test revealed that Yvonne was still pregnant, and her heart sank. She was faced with the harsh reality that she couldn't escape this burden.
In that moment, Yvonne's mind raced with conflicting thoughts and emotions. She considered her own life, having grown up without a father, and the pain and rejection she had experienced. How could she bring another life into this world, subjecting them to a similar fate? The thought of sparing another human being the trauma she had endured made her seriously consider ending the pregnancy.
In the end, Yvonne made the painful decision to go through with the abortion. Looking back, she deeply regrets that choice. She acknowledges that it was one of the most regrettable mistakes of her life. If she could turn back time and speak to her younger self, she would implore herself to keep the child, to give them a chance at life despite the challenges they might face.
Yvonne Nelson's revelation in her book, “I am not Yvonne Nelson,” unveils a deeply personal and emotional chapter in her life. It serves as a reminder of the complexities of relationships, the consequences of our actions, and the difficult choices we sometimes have to make. Yvonne's story is one of heartache, regret, and a profound longing for the opportunity to change the past.