A young Nigerian mother has exposed her WhatsApp conversation with her deadbeat baby daddy In the chats which she shared via Twitter, she tried to convince her baby daddy to show a little concern for his daughterHowever, the man remained adamant and continued snubbing her messages despite her constant persuasion
A Nigerian woman identified as @imoteda on Twitter has shared her WhatsApp chat with her daughter's father, whom she claims is a deadbeat.
In the chat, Imoteda pleaded with the man to be a father to their daughter, who is now 14 years old.
Lady exposes her chat with deadbeat baby daddy
Photo credit: @martinedoucet/ Getty Images, @imoteda/Twitter.Source: UGC
She expressed her frustration on Twitter and advised single mothers to name their children after them.
In her words:
“PLEASE O! So that you will not be begging one useless deadbeat. Cause money they will not drop, visit the child, they will not visit, respond to WhatsApp they will not respond. But Nigerian immigration will be telling you that you have to bring a useless man's passport.”
She added:
“Anyways, if you know Femi Aribisala please beg him to try and be a father small. And to stop lying that I moved his daughter without his knowledge and I don't keep him updated. Here I am begging somebody's father to pretend to be a father. I don beg tire.”
In the WhatsApp screenshots shared by @imoteda, she appealed to the man to be there for their daughter. However, she received no response.
“Like is it asking for a lot for you to care for your child? Jesus she's 14 years old and you've never been there for her”, she lamented to him.
As of May 8 2023, she sent a message to him asking for a picture of his passport so his daughter's visa could be renewed but he ignored it.
Reactions as single mum exposes chat with deadbeat baby daddy
The post has gone viral with many netizens expressing sympathy for the woman and her daughter.
Some also called for deadbeat fathers to be held accountable for their actions and to provide financial and emotional support for their children.
@ebelee_ said:
“Not a single word? Jheez man.”
@Rimzzzeee reacted:
“Christ this is awful.”
@Djjamzy_ reacted:
“Mothers manipulate their children against their dad. When there are 10 mother's day in a year, it usually looks like life is unfair to men. I hope we all can see this now.”
@is salsu reacted:
“This just broke me. I'm crying. This just spoilt my evening.”
@omalichanna commented:
“This woman even want u in ur daughters life. Na wa o for u, man up. Anyway u know ur reasons as an adult. All the best.”
@_angelvitalis reacted:
“If you can't be a good husband, be a good father to your kids. I don't know how you can be a good father without being a good husband to their mother but even if you can't, try to be a good father. That's the very least. Children shouldn't bear the grunt of these issues.”
See the post below:
Single mum calls off engagement over fiance's request to cut off with baby daddy
Meanwhile, Fox Nigeria previously reported that a single mother has revealed the reason behind the cancellation of her engagement to the love of her life. According to the lady, identified as Yvonne Kontoz on Facebook, her baby daddy requested that she cut ties with her baby's father. In her defence, the lady said she couldn't do such as it would deprive her child of her father's love.
She decided to cancel the engagement. Sharing their chat on Facebook, the single mum said: “Few days ago I called off my Engagement. My Fiancé was good, he loves me,has no problem with Taking care of me and my daughter Fully but there are things I can never compromise no matter how good you are to me And one of them Is the relationship My daughter has with Her Father..
“That has always been my rule. I broke up with my B.daddy but he didn't Break up with his child. The bond my daughter has with her dad is something I can never compromise just to make the man I'm dating feel nice. My Child is loved, my daughter is well taken care of, my little Girl has a Father, a very responsible father and I cannot Break the bond they have just to get married or to fit your needs.
